However well we align with our partners, it’s unlikely that we are able to say an enthusiastic, “Hell yes!” to every single thing they enjoy, every single time they want to do it. Enter: The Wheel of Consent.
A lot of folx in the kink scene enjoy playing with Power Exchange in their scenes. These can be an empowering and positive vehicle for exploring vulnerability and trust within mutually consenting partnerships. But are you fetishising implicit power imbalances? Or are you attracted to freely given and explicitly negotiated exchanges of power? The internetContinue reading “Consent, Power Exchange, and the Myth of “Just Say No””